23. April 2019

It’s been months since I’ve written, and I’m not sure why. There’s more to say about my life, but I guess I felt like the majority of the “revelation” of my adoption story was complete and I wasn’t sure where to go next. Every now and then, I get asked when I’ll be writing again.Continue reading “23. April 2019”

22. My Mother

It’s been such a long time since I’ve written. I haven’t forgotten about it. Life gets in the way, as it does for us all. When I think about it, I’ve given much thought to what to say next. The story of the unfolding of the mysteries of my life have been told. At least,Continue reading “22. My Mother”

21. An Unexpected Message

It’s been a month since our boys’ procedures. I didn’t think it would be this long before I’d write again. It’s not that I don’t have more to say, but honestly, life in general has gotten slightly more normal than it’s been since March and the arrival of Coronavirus- which means we’ve been busier. WeContinue reading “21. An Unexpected Message”

20. Thankful

Yesterday, our two boys had their procedures to embolize the AVMs in their lungs- just as I did last November. Connor had one in his lower left lung. Brady had two- one in his upper right, and one in his lower right lung. They were scheduled to have this done last March, the week thatContinue reading “20. Thankful”

19. Roger and Trish

So, when I wrote the most recent update about how my relationship with Lori’s family has progressed, I ended by saying that Roger and Trish get their own entry…here it is. In April of 2019, when I sent messages to Lori’s sibs wondering if I could be her baby, Roger was the first to respond.Continue reading “19. Roger and Trish”

18. Family Tree

Not much to say today, but more than once I’ve had requests for a family tree. I get it. It’s a big family and a lot of names are flying around in this story. It can be easy to get confused. I’m living it, and it took me a while! Below is a VERY roughContinue reading “18. Family Tree”

17. Getting to Know You

I feel like I need to go back several months, and talk about how my relationship(s) have changed with the members of my birth family. Things are very different now, and are really, really good. A few weeks after Patrick’s party, Brenda was in town visiting her family, so Derek and I were asked overContinue reading “17. Getting to Know You”

16. Healed

It’s been longer than usual since my last entry. On May 6, 2020, I had a tonsillectomy. Yikes…all the things “they” say about having your tonsils out as an adult are true. It’s rough. Mine had been trouble much of my life though, and definitely in recent years, so getting them out was worth doing.Continue reading “16. Healed”

15. My life- Saved.

Before I get started with this entry, I’m very happy to say that I can freely share this piece of information. I am employed by, and have received all my care for myself and my children through Cincinnati Children’s Hospital Medical Center. We are patients of the HHT Center of Excellence, and I have nowContinue reading “15. My life- Saved.”

14. Testing and Diagnosis

Remember WAY back in post number 6- I talked about needed to split the stories of the birth family journey and the journey toward finding out more about HHT? Well…it’s time to come back to the HHT piece of the story. At this point, it’s near the end of June 2019. Only a little moreContinue reading “14. Testing and Diagnosis”